About Us
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We bring over 25 years of pastoral experience to our mission of helping families build godly legacies that last for generations. With Sean’s background in theology and Lanette’s insight in psychology, we blend spiritual depth with behavioral understanding, offering a holistic approach to transformation that speaks to both the heart and the mind.
Together, we guide couples and singles to cultivate emotional health, spiritual wholeness, and practical habits that strengthen their relationships. Known for our humor, transparency, and faith-driven wisdom, we make complex truths simple and applicable, equipping people with tools they can live, not just learn.
As founders of LegacyMaker International, and creators of Our Couple Goals, our relationship-focused initiative within the LegacyMaker mission, we are devoted to empowering couples and leaders to thrive. We travel nationwide speaking at churches and marriage events, including Spark Lakewood Marriage Conferences and Focus on the Family gatherings. Through our books, podcast, coaching programs, and experiences, we inspire individuals to renew their minds, heal what’s been broken, and build the kind of legacy that reflects God’s heart.
The proof of our message is our own story: 27 years of marriage, three amazing adult children, and a shared passion for seeing others win at life and love. Devoted to enriching lives across the globe, we continue to teach, write, and lead with the conviction that AÂ Healthy You + A Healthy Me = A Happy Us.
ABOUT OUR COUPLE GOALS
Our Couple Goals™ is a relationship coaching ecosystem designed to support people at every stage of their relationship: dating, engaged, and married.
We believe healthy relationships don’t happen by accident. They are built intentionally, over time, with the right tools, support, and self-awareness. That’s why Our Couple Goals™ was created, not as a single course or event, but as a connected system that meets couples where they are and helps them grow forward.
At the core of everything we do is one simple truth:
A Healthy Me + A Healthy You = A Happy Us.
Strong relationships aren’t built by fixing one person or blaming the other. They’re built when individuals take responsibility for their own growth while learning how to love, communicate, and connect in healthy ways together.
How We Help Couples GrowÂ
Our approach blends:
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Relational self-awareness
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Personality-based insights
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Practical communication tools
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Emotional and intimacy development
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Daily habits that strengthen connection over time
Through assessments, courses, retreats, group coaching, intensives, and ongoing support, couples learn how their personalities work together, where friction tends to happen, and how to build a relationship that reflects who they are, not who they think they’re supposed to be.
More Than Coaching, A Way of Building “Us”
Our Couple Goals™ isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level advice. It’s about helping people grow into healthier individuals so they can build healthier relationships.
Because when each person is doing the work to become whole, emotionally mature, and self-aware, the relationship becomes a place of connection instead of conflict.